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My son’s grandmother doesn’t act like a Grandma
Category: Lifestyle Written by Gwendolyn Baines

GWENDOLYN BAINES
(NNPA)—Dear Gwendolyn:
I am engaged to get married in six months. My fiancé and I have dated for six years. Last summer we broke up and we both started dating someone else. This is the problem: For five years, his mother acted like she just adored me. During our breakup, she seems to now favor the new lady in her son’s life. However, my fiancé came back to me confessing he loves me. He says the entire time we parted his mind was on me and not the other lady.
Just before our breakup I discovered I was pregnant. We have a 9-month-old baby boy. His mother has nothing to do with our son. Gwendolyn, this is the horror of it all. She is telling her son not to marry me until he knows the baby is his. I told my fiancé absolutely no to the DNA test. It’s wrong for a man to request testing. Right?—Alice
Dear Alice:
Wrong! If men who have been married for years would request a DNA test, too many would be totally surprised when they would hear: “You are not the father.” Let me tell you this: No mother during this new age will encourage a son to marry a woman who refuses testing. Why are you refusing the test? You must have a feeling that your fiancé is not the father of your son. Don’t be afraid. If your fiancé loves you, then he will love you even if the test proves him not to be the dad. If that happens, your son’s first words would be mom, dad, but not—grandma.
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Last Updated on Thursday, 11 April 2013 09:51
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Got cake?
Category: Lifestyle Written by Debbie Norrell

I hate people who steal and especially people who steal free stuff. Last week the Cake Boss was in Pittsburgh in Market Square and gave away 10,000 cakes. When I heard this on the news I was so excited and I rarely eat cake. Well I do eat cake for special occasions, but pie is my preference. I wanted so badly to go Downtown and get in line for a free cake. They looked so pretty and they were my favorite flavors—free. But I couldn’t leave work just to get a free cake worth $27.
I tried to put the fact that there were free cakes being handed out in Market Square out of my mind until I was driving home and heard about the dust up on the news. A Black male actually tried to steal a box containing four cakes. He was pushing and shoving and reportedly he was intoxicated and not only that, he has some outstanding warrants… are you kidding me?
Why do people with those types of issues always draw attention to themselves? If he wanted a cake that bad just stand in line like the thousands of other people and get your free cake. Or was your motive to sell the cakes? Can you imagine buying a “hot cake?”
The cakes are available in Pittsburgh and there are six varieties, they look yummy. Here are the flavors so you don’t have to look them up. It’s My Party: Moist yellow cake and velvety chocolate cake layers married together by an indulgent layer of fudge filling. Oh My Ganache: Layers of heavenly chocolate cake with chocolate shavings filled with a creamy fudge filling and topped with Belgian chocolate ganache, wow. Vava Velvet: I bet you can guess the contents of this one? Moist layers of delicious red velvet cake filled with a rich cream cheese frosting and finished with cake crumbs and white chocolate shavings. Bada Bloom: Moist yellow cake and velvety chocolate cake layers married together by an indulgent layer of fudge filling. I wish I had room to show you the pictures of these beautiful cakes. There are two more. Dulce Deleche: Caramel dulce de leche filling between layers of rich chocolate cake, iced with dulce de leche buttercream and drizzled with Belgian chocolate ganache; and Whole Lotta Carrotts: Layers of moist cake with real carrots, pineapple, raisins, coconut and walnuts, married together by rich cream cheese frosting.
I want to taste each one of them. I may have a cake tasting party so I can try these cakes and share them with my friends. The only thing I want to know is where is my cake? Most companies that do this type of thing will send the press a sample of the cake. Perhaps after they see this column my cake will arrive at the office.
If you want to give them a try you can find them at Giant Eagle. I did a search and found 20 Giant Eagles that plan to carry the Cake Boss Cakes, locations like Squirrel Hill, Waterfront, Fox Chapel and Cochran Road.
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Last Updated on Thursday, 11 April 2013 18:44
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Pgh, Allegheny County Public Service Awards
Category: Lifestyle Written by Courier Newsroom

HONOREE WITH PARENTS—John B. Woodruff, awardee, with mother, Joy Woodruff, and father, Judge Dwayne Woodruff.
A powerful collection of personalities were assembled recently at the Champion Enterprises/Five Starr Corporation’s 12th Annual Pittsburgh and Allegheny County Public Service Awards held at the office facilities of the chief executive.
The lineup of speakers were: Allegheny County Executive Richard Fitzgerald opened the evening with a thunderous welcome, followed by state Rep. Ed Gainey; Aliquippa Mayor Dwan Walker; Wilkinsburg community leader, councilman candidate, Dennis Briggs; former Steelers Super Bowl champion Judge Dwayne Woodruff; former Pitt University football star and karate champion, Curtis Smith; along with national actress/model Rita Gregory and the Allure Models. Vietnam Veteran Marine Sgt. Jacquet Bazemore brought the house to its collective feet as the keynote speaker. Bazemore is also a hall of fame black belt martial artist.
Twenty of the area’s finest public servants were honored for their willingness to protect and serve all above and beyond the call of duty in memory of 9/11, including police, firemen, EMS, military and educators. The honorees were Denita Parrish, Rachera Jefferson, Austin Davis, Joe Luvara, Jacquet Basemore, Brother Yusef, Brother Malik Mohammad, Jelani Mohammad, Malaka Mohammad, Ralph Watson, Mark Tranquilli, Jerry Chiappinelli, Rashard Byrdsong, Koinonia Church of Pgh, Kevin Carter, John Woodruff, Tim Stevens, Jamie Holmes, Richard Venezia and the Wilkinsburg Police Department.
Last Updated on Wednesday, 10 April 2013 09:52
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Add a little Bling
Category: Lifestyle Written by Debbie Norrell

A $4 DRESS—Norrell’s Cheap Thrills
A Michele Obama-style dress for $3.49, a man’s jacket for $5 and a Wedding dress that you can wear once and take back. All of this and more were shown at the annual BASH (Black Association of South Hills) Scholarship Luncheon and Fundraiser. More than 450 attended the afternoon event at the Greentree Doubletree.
This year’s BASH fashion show was hosted by yours truly with fashions selected from my cheap thrills shopping trips and fashions courtesy of the late Wally King at DebWal in Station Square; New York, New York in Station Square; and A Woman’s Touch and Something Borrowed in Bloomfield. The show began with Casual Bling featuring beautiful embellished jackets by Christine Alexander. Scene two was “The Year of The Dress” and showcased the return of great dresses for daytime. In scene three there was plenty of evening bling and guests were invited to turn on their bling rings in the center of the table. The lights were dimmed in the ballroom and the rings blinked from wall to wall. The bling rings were the creative touch of event chair Hattie Watts. Scene four said “Yes to the Dress” and the models were all guests at a formal wedding.
The striking list of models included: Lorraine Turner, Marcia Younge, Otis Mills, Al Simpson Jr., Diane Stotts, Samantha Tyler and Sharon Burks. It was a great afternoon with a 50/50 raffle that swelled to over $1,200.
BASH was formed as an organization that serves as a welcoming committee for all new residents south of Pittsburgh, as well as a social, civic and charitable organization. For more than 30 years BASH has hosted several successful community events, which are now annual projects. The current roster of officers includes: Renee Mack, president; Willa McNeese, vice president; Waverly Nesmith, treasurer; Debra Hakeem, recording secretary; and Sheila McCollum,corresponding secretary.
Last Updated on Thursday, 11 April 2013 18:44
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Church Circuit 4-10-13
Category: Lifestyle Written by Courier Newsroom

Young, Gifted and Blessed
APRIL 12—The Christian Education Department of Greater Allen AME Church, 3600 California Ave., North Side, will host its “Young, Gifted and Blessed” event from 6-9 p.m. Youth will come and present their God given talents through song, dance, poetry, acting, music and more. For more information, call 412-732-2775 or Sis. Dorothy Stubbs at 412-969-8423.
Scholarship Concert
APRIL 13—The Center for Urban Biblical Ministries will host its 25th Anniversary and Scholarship Concert by the Class of 2013 from 6-8 p.m. at East Minster Presbyterian Church, 209 N. Highland Ave., East Liberty. The evening will feature psalmist James Ziegler and Evangelist Barbara Mann. Bishop Loran Mann will be the Master of Ceremonies. For more information, call Karla Threadgill Byrd at 412-247-9010.
Seminar
APRIL 14—Greater Works Outreach, 301 College Park Dr., Monroeville, will host the “Healing is the Children’s Bread” Seminar at 7 p.m. The three-day seminar, which runs through April 16, will feature Pastor Gary Mitrik and Apostle Reginald White as they provide Biblical instruction, personal prayer and ministry. The seminar is free. For more information, call 724-327-6500 ext. 117.
Pastoral Anniversary
APRIL 14—New Zion Baptist Church, 1413 Juniata St., North Side, will host its 47th Pastoral Anniversary Celebration of Rev. Dr. Samuel W. Williams Jr. The theme is “Bearing all things for 47 years.” The celebration will run through April 21 and begin with a Youth Ministry Kick-Off. There will also be a concert on April 20 at 4 p.m. with Rev. Elton Allen & The Voices of Zion. For more information, call 412-322-9566 or email
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Spring Revival
APRIL 15—St. John the Evangelist Baptist Church, 4537 Chatsworth Ave., Hazelwood, will host a Spring Revival at 7 p.m. The three-day event will include guest evangelist Rev. Robert Young and a guest choir each night. For more information, call 412-521-0994.
Women’s Weekend
APRIL 20—Nazarene Baptist Church, 7053 Hamilton Ave., Homewood, will host a Women’s Weekend. The theme is “Women Empowered by Divine Guidance.” The two-day event will include guests speakers Rev. Linda Oliver at 11 a.m. at April 20 and on April 21 Rev. Brenda Gregg at 11 a.m. and Rev. Wanda Sawyer-Flipping at 4 p.m. For more information, call 412-441-8243 or email
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Women’s Brunch
APRIL 27—The SHOUT (Sisters Hanging Out United in Truth) Women’s Ministry of Union Baptist Church of Swissvale, 2117 Collingwood Ave., Swissvale, will host a Women’s Brunch from 11:30 a.m.-2 p.m. Every fourth Saturday of the month, women will come together for food, fun and fellowship to praise the Lord and hear a Word from a woman of faith. This month’s special guest will be Rev. Terri Pennybaker. For more information, call Synthia Brown at 412-466-1150.
Missionary Conference
APRIL 27—Christian Tabernacle, 2601 Centre Ave., Hill District, will host a Missionary Conference. The theme is “Where There is No Vision-The People Perish.” There will be a Prayer Breakfast at 10 a.m. and a Worship Service on April 28 at 10:30 a.m. For more information, email Charles Mosby at
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Prophetic Workshop
APRIL 27—Restoration Wellness Ministries will host the Prophetic Worship at 7 p.m. at 238 Penn Circle, East Liberty. This is an evening with the king, and the praise of healing, restoration and refresh. For more information, email
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Last Updated on Wednesday, 10 April 2013 09:50
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