He is being evicted due to nonpayment of his rent. Everyone seems to be telling me not to allow him to move in with me. They claim he is only looking for a place to live—as he could have married me long before now.
On the other hand, people are telling me that living together will let me see the true person I will be marrying.
Gwendolyn, what do you think?—Sarah
I don’t understand how you can have doubt about him—or to question the wonderful advice from others. Let me tell you this: I do not believe you should allow your boyfriend to move in with you. I will tell you why: Eight years of giving your love and affection to this man is enough. You know…enough is enough. Single women are always getting hurt, but think about it: We ask for it.
Sarah, living together will not let you see the true person you are marrying. A man can pretend real good, but once he makes that commitment of saying “I do,” then and only then you will see whether he is—a monster or a man.
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